小事·就是你让我感到非常窝心。

刚刚同事买了包给我吃;就是这种普通简单的小事让我觉得非常的窝心。
其实生活就是如此简单,你爱护我我关心你,如此的简单就能让生活满足了。

很久很久都没有写部落格了,今天有件事情让我觉得很窝心,到现在为止都觉得很感动。

其实工作最让人窝心的莫过于就是同事间互相的关心吧?

一直以来我都不把我的同事当同事,我把他们当作我的朋友;其实就是因为如此,有时我不会让我的同事累坏了,反倒我希望他们多点休息,因为他们的工作量真的是超过他们的体能所限。

即便现在是身在有下属的岗位上,我视下属为学弟妹,他们更加需要学习,他们的工作量也是超出他们的体能所限,有时看到他们加班四处工作,我看到都替他们喊累。

其实下属最希望得到的有时不完全是物质上的享受,而是一句你的问候;这是我的老师和父母教导我的事情,我的师父也曾经告诉过我,“如果你想要别人关心你的话,你就要先学会关心别人。”

关心这些东西是我们本身就已经懂得的智慧,无需要学习(除非你是冷血动物)。

今天我早上有工作,而来不及吃早餐就已经到工作场地了,后到的同事也是肚子饿,但是他有机会去吃个快速早餐再回来会场,而我只是示意说我也是肚子饿。结果他转头回来的时候,手里抓着一个塑料袋子,里头装着的是很普通的两个饱。

“老兄,我不知道好吃不好吃哦~

当下的那份感动,比起任何事情来得窝心;有些人就是会因为这些小事而感动,而我就是这种人。

谢谢你咯~

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[转载][Repost] 一篇感人肺腑的文章 A touching piece of article

I have some wonderful new tattoos on my ass by the incredibleCris Cleen, who I love, and Iposted a picture of them on Twitter, which got many favorable comments — but there were two negative ones, and I blew a fucking gasket. I screamed out loud and tracked the perps down and blocked them, but not before really ramming it to them in the strongest language I could use. It was over the top and really kind of ridiculous, but I cannot help myself.

Some outside Facebook observer said that my "language" was too much and told me that I had "lost a fan" because she couldn't condone my "language." I am sorry for that, as I love my fans, and it sucks to lose one, but obviously she doesn't understand that when you grow up the way that I did, with kids at school throwing rocks at my face because they hated it because it was so ugly to them and they wanted the blood from my wounds to cover it so it wouldn't have to be seen and at summer camps stuffed dog shit in my sleeping bag because I was told time and again that I looked like shit — and that I had to empty myself in the dark forest and still sleep in smelling that shit all that night and for weeks after because my family was too poor to afford a new one — my "language" is on the strong side. I apologize for offending the former fan, but I am only myself. That is all I can be, and if I must apologize for that, I don't mind.All I am trying to say is that no young girl should be told she is ugly. If she is, you kill her spirit, and she may grow up like me, and lose a fan.

I grew up hard and am still hard and I don't care. I did not choose this face or this body and I have learned to live with it and love it and celebrate it and adorn it with tremendous drawings from the greatest artists in the world and I feel good and powerful like a nation that has never been free and now after many hard won victories is finally fucking free. I am beautiful and I am finally fucking free.

I fly my flag of self-esteem for all those who have been told they were ugly and fat and hurt and shamed and violated and abused for the way they look and told time and time again that they were "different" and therefore unlovable. Come to me and I will tell you and show you how beautiful and loved you are and you will see it and feel it and know it and then look in the mirror and truly believe it. If you are offended by my anger and my might at defending my borders and my people you do not deserve entry into my beloved and magnificent country.

If you were raised lovingly and told you were perfect and beautiful and loved and the best at all things, I am just jealous. You had it much better, and so you really should spread that love around as opposed to judging those like me who never had that, never knew what it was like and never could even imagine it. I could learn from you instead of feeling judged by you. Give the less loved and less cared for and less treasured a chance. If I had that opportunity, then my language and attitude might not be so offensive. If I had been told once when I was a little girl that I was pretty (other than when I was being sexually molested – that doesn't count) it might have made me nicer. It just didn't happen. So I had to make do and make up for it myself. And that made me a bit on the edgy side. It made me a bit of a bitch.

When someone says something negative about my face or body I will always and forever just completely lose my shit, because I have so much hatred in me, a violence that lies just beneath the surface of my delightfully illustrated skin. Being called ugly and fat and disgusting to look at from the time I could barely understand what the words meant has scarred me so deep inside that I have learned to hunt, stalk, claim, own and defend my own loveliness and my image of myself as stunningly gorgeous with a ruthlessness and a defensiveness that I fear for anyone who casually or jokingly questions it, as my anger and rage combined with my intense and fearsome command of words create insults meant to maim, kill and destroy.

Things I could say should be left unheard and unsaid because I am not willing to be the bigger person. I do not take the high road. I take the low road and blows below the belt are my absolute favorite. The best revenge is not living well. The best revenge is revenge. My mouth and mind and typing fingers are weapons of mass destruction and I pity those ignorant idiots who would leave insults about mine or any women's bodies in comment boxes because there's ways of hunting people down. Lots and lots of ways. It's not as anonymous as they think, as stupid as they are.

I'd like to say things that would haunt them for the rest of their days, because their hideous words stay with me eternally. Their insipid spouts of "no fat chicks" are branded onto my soul, so they must reap what they sow. If I am in my worst way and I talk to you, you will know you have been talked to. I want to punish you with the unforgettable shit you will take to your grave and hurt you long after you are dead in the ground.May my poison bore holes in your dry, decaying bones.I am not proud of this, but it's just the way this life has made me.

I want to defend the children that we still are inside, the fragile sensitive souls who no matter how much we tried were still told we were not good enough. I want to make the world safe and better and happy for us. We deserve beauty, love, respect, admiration, kindness and compassion. If we don't get it, there will be hell to pay. I am no saint, but I am here for you and me. I am here for us, and I am doing the best I can.

Read more at ONTD:http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/65732560.html#ixzz1jXRpsO1H

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新纪元学院学生作品《同床异梦Exchange 2012》

无意间发现学生的作品。

同性恋毕竟还不能被广大社会接受,所以这类作品出现的时候还真的非常震撼。

或许我们应该开始省思,“爱”真的只是局限在课本里透学习的几种吗?

跨出那个界限真的会被歧视吗?

同性恋还在灰色地带,接受与否,看在人心咯~







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建宇临回宜力之前的I City之旅


又是一个临时说要去的短旅,
这一趟没有甚多的人数,只有少数的老同
但是那般乐趣仍然还在


抵达这里的时候,天色未暗而我也还在肚子饿当中,
原因就是前一天太累,睡到不知发生什么事情。
迟起而没东西吃,一直忍受到晚上才吃。

所以在等待的当儿,我才吃。

(一讲到吃,我就语无伦次)


这里仍然是那么的漂亮,或许下一次我来这里的时候
旁边是牵着一个女生的手吧?


哈哈,胡乱抓下的镜头


没想到胡乱抓下的镜头还可以让大家如此的好看咯~


有点印度宝丽活的剧照的说~
刻意放大,怕大家看不到后面白色衣服的其实是忠润


我们大家都已经24岁咯~


难得合照咯~ 阿宇最终被说服了~





我就知道效果很好,可能这是我们最后一次耍幼稚咯~


回忆小时候,整个回旋木马只有我们这几个老人家。


管你的~我是来回旋一下不行哦?


我们准备了一些小礼物给老同们在新年的时候玩哦~
你们记得出席哦~

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从去年玩到今年的旅程




属于我们的11:55 - 01:00,我们在波德森跨年
从去年玩到今年的旅程

今年流行一个笑话,“你不要在20111231日晚上1159分大便,因为你的大便就会在2012年才能够出现。”

每一年,我们都会选择聚在一起度过圣诞节,而今年我们选择一起跨年,今年我们的跨年地就在波德申。

其实这是一个还蛮‘拉苏梅尼’的计划,本来我们是要到Taman Negara的,后来发现车程遥远加上昂贵住宿,所以就舍弃了这个念头。最后才计划波德森。

因为去波德森之前的几天,我的车被人家Kiss,所以花了很长的时间去修理,把本来在山顶之约(LookUpPoint)搞砸了。




本来预算比大家更加早到LookUpPoint,后来却是最迟到达;本来可以圆淑沁去lookuppoint看看的梦,结果就因为我的车子的关系而让她扫兴了~这一切都怪那个CCB,如果不是他的话,我的计划可就圆满~



Edit一下,感觉很像海报的说~
也是很海报的说~ 或则是专辑封面~ 


来来来~还没有下水之前,我们先来一张合照;
这样的合照出现的次数少到可怜,有机会当然拍个饱啦~


本来打算提早出门的,后来还是拖到12点才出发,载满了人也载满了物,就往波德森出发了~

沿路碰上了不知道为了什么而塞车的塞车,结果本来半句钟的车程就可以抵达的终点,变成了1个小时多的车程~

抵达Corus Paradise之前,我上网搜寻酒店的资料,很多人都认为是个很差的地方,所幸车内的老同们都觉得很不错,幸好我选对了地方,不然大家可就不开心咯~



丽琴说这张照片很温馨,像是一家人聚在一起的时候
我也是身同感受


 因为频频在水里,都没有什么机会拍照,幸好还有Satay在,不然这些照片就不存在咯~
 
那些年,我们趴在海水里~
那些年我们和石头拍照 (>.<)

那些年我们躺在海水里~




 倒数前的晚餐
这一趟,我们等了差不多1个小时,食物才慢慢上桌;幸好没有耽误到1159pm,不然我可能会对那家餐厅进行法律诉讼~告他们耽误我们倒数的时间。
到底那个Satay串是谁出钱的?

比较晚到的文意和扬威也已经抵达咯~


当然我们这些斯文人,吃饱了还是要保持矜持的咯~
拍张照片先~
吃饱了就要倒数咯~ 5,4,3,2,1
恭喜我以单身的状态结束2011,也以单身的状态开始2012

F.R.I.E.N.D.S.H.I.P  F.O.R.E.V.E.R

半夜我们在房内玩游戏,结果我醉到自己0 0 7 我自己,搞到旁边的扬威笑到趴地,据文意表示这是她第一次看到他笑到这个样子,而稍后记者也向另外一位朋友得知,也同样表示第一次看到这样的扬威。

酒真的害死人咯~


0.0.7. Bang Ah

牛仔也可去海滩的啦~ Eddie已经很白了,结果还曝光一下
更加的白~ 真的是超级白(我没有说粗口)

花絮之不知道如何命名的照片~ 我很喜欢文意的表情,
堪称最成功的恐怖电影女演员~

公蕉船

这是一个我又爱又恨的游戏吧?在我们计划前来波德申的时候,大家就已经议论纷纷的说要玩公蕉船,我当然是配合再配合的说,因为在我脑海里面这种水上游戏是非常刺激的,可是,当我看到/听到/闻到的时候

“一定要掉下去的”

“没有人回救你的,你要自己爬上公蕉船”

我就对自己说,“叶添鸿,你虽然不是处男,但是你还没有结婚咧~”结果我还是硬着头皮上去这个所谓黄柳柳的塑胶玩具上。

船夫把我们带到深海中央,沿路佳欣就告诉我说,会被摔两次,我还坚持不掉下去;但竟然来到了深海,为什么不给自己一个全新一年的洗礼呢?

结果我跳了两次~



这张照片已经显示的出,我们饿到连自己的体重多少都忘记了~





在树荫下,我们回忆过去,我们展望未来
我们相聚此刻,不分不离,我们友情永固
我们友谊长存,有福同享有难...或许可以同当

不管发生什么事,我们都在一起。
失而复得的眼镜
这发生在公蕉船之前的事情,我想我会更加珍惜挂在我脸上的眼镜吧?

话说,我们继续玩猴子抓球系列(二),在比较深的海水域里玩,而我就自荐当猴子而因为抓不到球而沉下水中,眼镜而因此不能够稳固在耳朵上,而滑落进海里,而加上水花四溅和波涛汹涌(夸张~)的浪水,我的眼睛就在水里。

我非常失落~ 就独自走向岸边,反正都玩不到了~

后来我用模模糊糊的眼睛看着还中央的朋友们,忽然高呼起来,“YEAH!”原来,有人找到了我的眼镜。

原来他们一字排开,用脚地毯式搜查海底,在没有希望的希望下,忠润就找到了我的眼镜~感谢你们咯~

有人说:这张照片很想类似生活营的照片这样
我们不是一直都是这样生活着吗?
我爱我的朋友哦~

被杯隔的少年:或许很多人认为我们当中如果有人好像被冷落在身边,他/她就是被讨厌的人,但是事实并不如此;我被逼要拿回一句朋友的话来说,“即使我们两人出来吃饭,但是没有什么对话也好,就因为我们友谊多时,就绝对不会出现冷场、杯葛的事情。”这是属于我们老同们的时间


当我们疯在一起,你也不能够忍受我们,大家疯狂的程度好像有点收敛了~

你看啦~ 既感动又感动的说,难得的合照啊~



我们都是孝顺父母的孩子们

回程我们在芙蓉烧包城吃个午晚餐这样,(毕竟我们几个没有吃早餐就已经跑出来玩了)即便出来玩,我们都想到要买一点东西回宜力给父母亲咯~

慈蕙说回到宜力应该10分钟内可以送完给全部人,我反驳

“不可能,因为AuntyUncle们就会寒暄温暖个几下,就已经超过10分钟了。”

“对咯~Aunty会问,哦你也有去玩啊?开心吗?多人吗?还有谁去啊?不好意思要麻烦你咯~   

哈哈,标准的宜力人;不过你们记得要谢谢慈蕙啦~

还是要多谢你,如果没有慈蕙,你们的烧包就不会回到宜力哦~


以前,我们的毕业旅行事,经费受限,交通受限,往往因为如此我们同一辆巴士出去,但是大家都不能够聚在一起玩;这回大多数的我们都已经是车主,也有稳定的工作,所以大家才不会因为交通经费而闹得不开心;友情真的不要受到这些事情的限制。
不同的角落有不同的合照哦~


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